All out of words
Sometimes disagreement is unavoidable but when it happens you have to prepare your mind that at the end of the day, you are on your own. All the decisions rest upon you and there is no turning back on every word that goes out from your mouth. This applies to every situation not only in relationship but in any cicumstances that occur in your life. I do not suggest people to run away from problems, instead I think they should deal with the matters right away..just to get things done and over with. However, there are times that it's better to end the conversation even before it begins just to minimize the damage that could take place if you pursue the matter.
It is difficult when you try to let other people to see your point of view, especially when they already have their mind set on particular outcome because no matter how hard you try it's still not good enough for them. It might be easy to talk about your problem but to get a right comfort is another story. When the damage has been done it is very hard to undo things. I can understand why some people prefer to keep their problems inside and deal with those things in their own times because they don't want to cause other people trouble in dealing with the problems. Largely due to the misunderstanding in people that they find that listening to your problem causing them more trouble when it's not theirs and you end up feeling like shit because you're causing all the burden to those nice people who give you their precious time in listening to you. That's why some people pick to handle their own problems rather than sharing it.
Sometimes all you need is someone to listen to you. You don't want their opinion but just someone who's there and take notice of your existence. But when you get a hint that you're causing them burden, you start hiding your feeling to yourself but it's for the best and for the peace of mind for everyone because at the end of the day, you are standing on your own feet and it's your problem...not them. So smile and things will get better.
It is difficult when you try to let other people to see your point of view, especially when they already have their mind set on particular outcome because no matter how hard you try it's still not good enough for them. It might be easy to talk about your problem but to get a right comfort is another story. When the damage has been done it is very hard to undo things. I can understand why some people prefer to keep their problems inside and deal with those things in their own times because they don't want to cause other people trouble in dealing with the problems. Largely due to the misunderstanding in people that they find that listening to your problem causing them more trouble when it's not theirs and you end up feeling like shit because you're causing all the burden to those nice people who give you their precious time in listening to you. That's why some people pick to handle their own problems rather than sharing it.
Sometimes all you need is someone to listen to you. You don't want their opinion but just someone who's there and take notice of your existence. But when you get a hint that you're causing them burden, you start hiding your feeling to yourself but it's for the best and for the peace of mind for everyone because at the end of the day, you are standing on your own feet and it's your problem...not them. So smile and things will get better.
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2:53 am
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